Should Divorce Day be renamed Divorce ‘Quarter’?
As the so-called ‘Divorce Day’ looms once more, experienced family solicitor Rachel Buckley from The Family Law Company looks at the statistics behind divorce enquiries.
She says “For many years the media and some lawyers have referred to the first business day of the year as ‘Divorce Day’; as it is the day family law firms reopen after the break it’s the first opportunity for someone contemplating divorce to get in touch. This year it might be January 2 or 8, depending on the firm.
“It’s a common belief that the pressures of Christmas can often tip a relationship over the edge, whether that’s due to too high expectations, financial stress or family demands.”
In fact, research by The Family Law Company shows that enquiries spike not only at the beginning of January but continue for the first quarter of the year. The firm’s internal statistics from last three years clearly indicate that the highest number of enquiries were received between January and March. And whilst numbers of divorce enquiries in 2022 were highest in January, in 2023 they peaked in February.
Of course, separation and divorce can happen at any time, frequently after a ‘final straw’ scenario. Much like the Christmas break, the long summer holidays are known to create fractures in relationships, especially when there are children in the family, and parents find themselves constantly juggling.
Rachel adds “Whatever time of year you face a divorce, we understand that this is a brave decision to make. Taking advice early on is really important and family law firms may offer a free initial appointment to discuss your options, which will help you to clarify your next steps.
“A good family lawyer will provide objective, realistic advice from the start. If you then decide to continue with your divorce, they will work with you to help minimise both costs and potential acrimony, whilst ensuring the outcome is in your – and your family’s - best interests.”
In addition, an experienced family lawyer will explore the different avenues open to you, including keeping your divorce out of court through using mediation or arbitration.
Rachel understands that taking the first step, whether this is on Divorce Day or any other day will seem daunting. “At the outset, getting a divorce may seem like a huge mountain to climb, but with the right support you’ll be able to face your future with a really positive outlook.”
